FRIENDS

By now you have already known that maybe just maybe you will not be getting angels and perspectives,, only you’ll get stories too .The account name is a pseudonym ,a front basically,but not the one you might be thinking, secret swiss bank account to launder money

I’ll be talking about friends, friendship rather,one of the complex yet simple human relationship

Friendship in the modern times entails alot of things,which might not necessarily be based on that foundation which it was originally meant to be . Friends are supposed ,or so I think , to be people that are there for you wholly,your lowest as well as your highest times, I mean if blood is thicker than water what will stop friendship being one of the most essentially human relationships?

I am not saying that you create commandments to base upon as criteria to choose your friends,, after all your not Moses and some mountains are not worth climbing for.

You get the drift , friends are supposed to be people who stand by you and not only that but also stand for something.If you and your friend do not have the same mindset on things , not saying you will always have to agree on everything so long as you respect each other’s stand.You think about that

Your friends should be people that will support you , support here doesn’t have to be monetary, it can be your presence,, just being there as sometimes that just cuts it ,, it’s usually enough

Friendships have alot of expectations.its hard not to expect anything, it would be an exercise in futility.That would be a business doing something and to get nothing in return,, try that and see.It might not be your cup of tea, learning how to navigate this part might be a make or break thing for most friendships.It is usually healthy to talk about it earlier .Don’t let unspoken expectations turn into pre mediated resentments

Every friend has a key to unlock some part of who you are . sometimes you ask yourself how did I let someone into my circle.Some unlock toxic traits others make you bloom,some friends you have ,, have little in common ,, you might just call them aquaintances but you are afraid of how the world will judge you Most of us find ourselves in this situation maybe it’s someone who your clinging on to despite the fact that there is real nothing that binds you two together .Be smart or if there is ,, it’s chocking you let go save yourself ✌️

With loveee peace ✌️

EQUALITY

It’s sad,, small kids are indulging in stuff that don’t help at all,,, it’s sad teens who are supposed to be smart are falling into ditches 😓it pains my heart .we can’t have everything the little things given to as are enough God has a reason

I keep listening to stories and tales,, girls being raped 😤but who is to blame,,, in every rape incident them males are always blaimed,where did the male privilege go to where???men are human but girls are considered a special category

We all breath ,,, girls are to blaim ,,,men are human too they have flesh not wood .There is no way you’ll provoke him and expect to go freely they have impulses to …Why on Earth would you provoke him ,,, then afterwards cry he raped me ,,he was after my body ,,, he is after sex ,, he can’t control his emotions tbhh this is stupid

The fact that you carried your tow legs to him ,,, freely opened them ,,, means you wanted it.If you weren’t interested you wouldn’t have gone in the first place

I think men or rather boys should be treated well ,, we can’t blaim them evertime ,,, it’s never their fault,,, girls are treated like superior beings will it hurt anyone treating boys the same way would it?

We always see the mistakes in men ,, nobody sees the good in them ,,, to be honest men are the best people,, they help in may ways if it wasn’t for them most things wouldn’t run, Remember it’s because of the sperm in him that you are hear . Treating them nicely is the best gift ever

How many times do you complement a man I’m so sure it’s few and to some they’ve never done it 😒 treating people the way you’d want to be treated is important ✌️we are all humans we breath in free oxygen no one is special

With lover✌️💓

There is this girl😌💓

Heyy welcome back to my small world😁.Today I’ll be writing about a girl so special

Daughters are the angels sent by God from heaven,, baby though you ain’t paternal ilyyysffmm.You came to fulfill my life and you did it in the most perfect way .I am proud to be your mother having you my beautiful girlll.My prayers are always with you

If there is one person in this world I love more than myself is you.Your happiness is always my first priority .Baby I love you

Dear daughter , you are my pride .No matter how hard last few gets ,, I will never let sadness touch you😌😊.In the end your happiness is what matters 😌♥️

You don’t have just a beautiful face but also a beautiful heart.Always trying to light up the lives of others with all that’s good in you I love you Mercy clarettt

I love you so much baby,,,, like comment

In a world seen strongest,

Welcome back to my world 😌 where I just write to heal my soul

The world is full of ups and downs .We don’t know what tommorow owns us so we just say YOLO ,,, dear people I know you might not be a multitude but the few or many that will read this I am greatful I’ve wanted to do this for a long time I didn’t know how to start it,,a close person I call her munchie helped me alot. I will forever thank her

Dear munchieeee,ik I may not be the best but I’m holding on cause of you ,,, I’ve been hurt torn into pieces .I never show it I cry but it reached a point I said enough is enough

My tears were ending for no apparent reason ,, I was weak and vulnerable 😔 people too my kindness for weakness some thought I was a dupe but naaah I was the fox.I might look strong but I know the batttles within

It hurts when I think of how I cared so much for people who didn’t deserve it.My joy was seeing people smile and happy but I was suffering, funny thing the people don’t care about me

I’m not attacking anyone but thenest time you care so much about people try measuring if they care about you too,, some people are just temporary few are permanent

Lucky are they that have permanent people,in a wild seen strongest I repeat in a world seen strongest this are the same people who are weak

We all are perfectly imperfect , being strong helps you won’t get hurt giving people a had back so that when they stub you they’ll feel the pain

Some girl for instance I won’t mention her name ,, but I pray that’s she gets all she wants ,, she was all nice and stuff towards me but the bond broke after she got into some mess 😔 I can’t hate someone you hate to make you happy

I might look strong at first I doubted it ,, but the fact I can hear people say negative thing about me is still laugh shows I am strong.Even the strongest people have insecurities 😊a friend of mine used to sa” chuki nichukie roho yangu niachie” I now understand

I hereby take this opportunity to thank the people behind my strength first of all munchiee she is special,,, then Chelsea 😌she is one amazing Friend who helped me and I won’t forget her,, then nimo she helped me alot ,, Munirah she taught me how to be strong, Cynthia for always being there ,, to my very special make friend(I won’t mention his name though but I’ll say something about him ,,, dear Mr special you’ve been a blessing I appreciate ,, I’ve learnt alot from you you are smart and amazing I love you),, some other interlectual man😊(Him,, sir you inspire me alot how I wish I knew you earlier ,I’ve scolded you once 😂but im learning alot from you I appreciate )

Dear reader if you have permanent people stick to them theye are probably the reason behind you being strong ,, be the strongest they ever knew ,, pray for them too

Like😌 share, adios

Not everyone that’s smik

story of my life

Heyyy awesome peeps welcome back to my world 😌

Born in a family of 3kids I am the firstborn ,, it comes with lotsa responsibilities .Yeah it has its advantages but it also has demerits.I grew Knowing my siblings will look up to me I oughta show them a good example

My mom and dad have been of great help ,, I wasn’t a stubborn kid .I’m not praising myself or something the thing I hated was house chores.weel my mom used to do almost everything including my laundry .

My dad ,, I really celebrate him😌 I was a dadies girl.I still am he always supported me in everything .He is the reason why I am strong my mom too both my parents are amazing

There is this time while I was i primary I got Into a mix ,, I wouldn’t call him my boyfriend but some boy wrote me a letter.I carried it unknowingly and by dad lack it fell down.The headteachers son was a class ahead he picked the letter and read it but forgot it in his pocket

When the mother (the headteacher)was doing his laundry he found the letter read it and got furious 😔.The next day I was surmoned by the secretary I missed the first two lessons she gave me a lecture 😭 and threatened to take me to the chief since I was Indulging me in young relationships 😔,, she even said she won’t allow me to attend the school trip since I would spoil the other kids

Lucky enough during the annual parade they didn’t mention my name they said it indirectly ,to say my parents dont know.I actually hate that boy to date

Like share and follow for part two✌️

X

Dear Joan

Welcome back good people ,, I hope you are good and fine keeping safe during this hard time

So today I decided to appreciate myself ,, I don’t need somebody assurance or compliments 😊. Learning how to appreciate yourself is the best gift ever Caine no matter how many people like you it’s your stands that matters 😉.

Dear jonnn I hope your good I wanted to appreciate you for not only being a good person but also for being amazing ,,being a caring friend who is sweet isn’t it amazing

Joan you cared alot for people who are not worth it,, you’ve been hurt several ,it’s for a reason we all learn from our mistakes ,, being good ain’t badd,it’s funny how people take your kindness for weakness ,

It hurts that the person who you cared so much about hates you ,,karma is a bitch though and it’s served unprepared,, people hurt you don’t cry it makes you strong ,, crying is Medicine for the soul but don’t normalize it

Joan the people who hurt you are smiling ,your here hurting and crying as if somebody close to you died 😢 save your tears babygirl ,, fight the battles within they make you strong 💪

Life is unfair 😔 not everyone that smiles at you cared ,, your close friend is the same person who hates you just maybe,, don’t believe or trust anyone with sleeves on

Your quite vulnerable that’s your weakness ,, I hate that you know don’t care about what people say,, Joan you are amazing always know that

Stay safe 😘 adios

A FRIEND SO DEAR😌

Hey welcome to my world hope y’all good 😊

I’m not here to praise neither am I here to criticize I’m here to appreciate.. We all know the world is full of thorns in the name of friend,, my defiantion of a friend is not someone I laugh with that not it ,, a friend is someone who knows my struggle someone I trust ,, someone who cares

I was taught that your friend tells people your character ,, I wouldn’t say I have the perfect friends ,, personally I’ve been raised by strict african parents.My mother for instance she can look at someone then say( huyu apana)

I’ve made mistakes ,, made okay I willl not say bad but to some extent they failed me ,, me being in their company not only did it make me stupid but also spoilt 😂eehm okay my point is I care alot but the people I used to care about didn’t care

They gave me fake love ,, so I happened to know someone aahm the person has helped me in many ways ,, I love overthinking when I do so my health is always affected it’s my fault anyway,, I’ve been admitted I guess twice 😔story for some other day

So this Friend we’ve know each other for a short time but it seems like a life time,, amazing bold and always there who would want such a friend ,

Dear bestfriend,, I don’t know how I’ll ever thank you ♥️I love you mofo your the best thing ever so far I pray that you’ll get all you wish for,,,good health and my your pockets never run dry ,,may you live long ,♥️I love you mofo ♥️💯

FIGHTS WITHIN

Hey ,, hello hop y’all doing good and staying safe ,,

So today I’ll write something deep , I’ve struggled I know many people have.People are different some love opening up while some don’t ,, we all have those battles ,,eehm lemme break it in my case I grew in one hostile environment,, I was nobody’s favorite (I don’t care rynna) .

So here is my story,, I always wanted to prosper and stuff I tried doing lotsa stuff but they’d get turned down.I know the pain you get after trying then you get turned down see I’m not perfect nobody is we all have imperfections,, there are good characters I have I have vices too that I can’t hide

I happen to trust people and care too much that made me stupid , what I mean is I never had limits . Everytime I look back tears fall,, I’m quite emotional if only I could restart time I wouldn’t be healing the wonds in me sad thing it can’t happen it’s like waiting for hens teeth

We all have messed at one particular time ,, it hurts but what I’d advise let the past slide ,, it happened you can’t change it . Forgetting is not an option rectifying is what is key ,, Be your own idle be your own favorite person

I would spend hours crying ,, they say crying is good for the soul but why should you suffer ,they say (maji yakimwagika hayazoleki) always know nobody is perfect the mistakes you’ve made don’t define you we all learn from mistake

Try checking up on your friend 😊 some smile but are suffering inside ,, you might be laughing with a dead person ,, take care of the people who care about you ,if you happen to have a bestfriend but thank the one you Serve it’s funny this people turn out to be more than friends

Always smile life is short ,, your smile alone is the best medicine, you never know your prolly someone Bible remember your life is like a Bible to someone he /she might be flipping to know whats best,

In everything you do always know you’ll get demoralized not everyone who smiles at you wants the best for you,,, not everyone who calls him or herself is a friend ,,your friend is you ,,, and maybe someone else who you trust,,, trust few be above the crowd hold your tiara high ,life is about struggling your past doesn’t define you 😉 remember that the mistakes you did back then throw them in a pit

Heal your scars don’t spend hours crying ,find a solution accept move on if you focus on your imperfections you won’t go anywhere use your strengths ,, people will be shocked you can even use your weakness it also works

Help someone somewhere 💓✌️you are here for a reason your imperfection doesn’t define you😌 peace ✌️stay safe♥️ smile